Keep a Sense of Perspective
Well, here you are! Starting college. It’s what you’ve been working towards for the last two years, or four, or more . . . Maybe you’re thrilled you’re coming to Bryn Mawr, or maybe you had your sights set on something different. Adults you know may be reminiscing about their wonderful first year of college. Others may tell you cautionary tales of almost flunking out. And we here at Bryn Mawr are adding to the chorus of voices. With all the anticipation and all the well-intentioned advice, you may be starting to feel as if you’re about to embark on the single most important year of your life.
Well, I’m not so sure that’s so. So my own first piece of advice is: remember, it’s just one year. On the one hand, one year is a long time, so don’t panic three weeks (or even three months) into your time here if you haven’t yet met a true kindred spirit, or had a life-changing seminar discussion, or found an extracurricular activity that really feels like a good fit. All of this could still happen. On the other hand, a year is relatively short in the grand scheme of things, so if you’re having a hard time dealing with some of the trials and tribulations of freshman year here (working for dining services, living in a quad), remember it’s not forever. Each change of year – and even the change from fall semester to spring – offers a chance at a fresh start.
My second piece of advice is: it’s really not a year at all. At the risk of sounding incredibly trite, try taking life a day at a time. This is especially helpful if you’re homesick, but it can also help with managing other kinds of situations. You may be so excited about the big things that being a college student will offer that you forget to notice the small pleasures along the way. Or you may be so nervous about the challenges ahead that you have a hard time focusing on the small tasks that are the real components of almost every challenge.
Finally, don’t be afraid to ask for help. Believe people (Customs People, HA’s, Peer Mentors , CDAs, the friendly junior next door, your professor) when they say they want to help. And don’t forget your friendly neighborhood dean. Whether your problem is large or small, specific or amorphous, embarrassing or just surprising, academic or not, we really are prepared to help. I’m embarking on my tenth year here as a dean, and while I’d never claim to have seen it all, I do now have a surprising number of advising experiences to draw on, as do the other deans. So if you’re having a problem getting perspective on your life here, the first step may be getting someone else’s perspective!
Saturday, June 1, 2013
Housing Form Due
Monday, June 3, 2013
Advising questionnaire and various assessments open (see To Do List)
Monday, July 1, 2013
Health Forms Due to ADMISSIONS
Monday, July 8, 2013
Advising questionnaire and various assessments due (see To Do List)
Thursday, August 1, 2013
Emily Balch Seminar preference form due (see To Do List)
Sunday, August 18, 2013
Fall Athletes Arrive
Monday, August 26, 2013
International Student Orientation
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
Dorms open for new students at 9:00 a.m.
Wednesday, August 28 - Monday, September 2, 2013
Customs Week Orientation - all new students required to participate
Thursday, August 29, 2013
The Academic Fair - Meet the Professors
Friday, August 30, 2013
Monday, September 2, 2013
Labor Day- NO CLASSES
Tuesday, September 3, 2012
Classes Begin at Bryn Mawr and Haverford Colleges
Physical Education course registration begins
(for all classes except Wellness) PE classes start Monday, September 9
Convocation and Opening Picnic for the College Community
Friday, October 11, 2013
Fall Break Begins after last class
Monday, October 21, 2013
Fall Break Ends - Classes resume 8:00a.m.
Friday November 1 -
Sunday, November 3, 2013
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Thanksgiving vacation begins after last class.
Monday, December 2, 2013
Thanksgiving vacation ends at 8:00a.m.
Friday, December 20, 2013
Exams end 12:30pm-Bryn Mawr & Haverford
Winter Break Begins DORMS CLOSE AT 6:00p.m.
Friday, January 17, 2014
Winter Break Ends
Dorms re-open at NOON
5- Year Academic Calendar(PDF)